"I agree with the premise of Deb’s book because we’ve all seen it far too often: The so-called “sanctified” church man who uses the hypnotic power of black female loyalty to spread his genitalia throughout the entire church. In many cases, these men are married with kids, thumping their bibles at whoever passes by and quoting just enough scripture to get into a woman’s panties. Some of them, like Bishop Eddie Long, even have the audacity to condemn the gay community during the day and sweat with them on the dance floor on Friday nights. There is nothing holy about a hypocrite.
Power can corrupt even the most noble men. I don’t have as much power as some people I know, but I have more power than a lot of people I know. I’ve oftentimes seen situations where women would trust me instantly because they’ve heard of me and admire what I do. While such admiration can be wonderful food for the ego, I try to remind those I meet that giving unconditional trust to anyone (even so-called black leaders) is a recipe for manipulation".
I speak for me only...... I choose too be single I want too work on myself and goals then date. I know some people can do both. I rather focus on mother hood, goals then going on dates. I guess so on this
ITS ALL ON THE PERSON ON WHETHER THEY WANT TO BE SINGLE OR NOT
I WOULDN'T BLAME THE CHURCH FOR BLACK WOMEN BEING SINGLE. THAT IS GOING A BIT FAR. I WOULD HOWEVER GUESS THAT THEY ARE SINGLE FOR THEIR OWN PERSONAL REASONS. MUCH LUV, MZ TEFLON
@ SHEED..LOL EXPLAIN..
it depends on the person...
we all have the right to do what we want this is not the 1800 no more women do have rights just like men
and that's why they say " the Lord Is Good".... make ya wonder huh !